Blind Date with a Book: How One Exchange Sparked Connection and Conversation
Our inaugural Blind Date with a Book Exchange took place at the perfect moment during our very first retreat in sunny Palm Springs. Between poolside lounging, book chats, and desert sunsets, this was the ideal icebreaker to help us get to know each other beyond the usual small talk.
The theme was Books That Changed Me.
It might have been a bold ask, but this group leaned right in. The books we exchanged ran the gamut, and so did the reasons behind them. Some arrived in our lives when we needed them most. Others opened new worlds, reshaped our perspectives, or reminded us how powerful connection can be with ourselves, with friends, or even with strangers.
Here is a look at the books that sparked conversation, reflection, and plenty of laughs:
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson
Sometimes a life-changing book shows up wrapped in blunt humor and unapologetic honesty. For this reader, it was the reminder that it is okay to care less about what doesn’t serve you and to get intentional about where your energy goes.
The Red Tent by Anita Diamant
This story reclaims the voices of women often left out of history. It celebrates female connection, strength, and the quiet, essential roles women have always played even when no one was watching.
Sandwich by Catherine Newman
Messy, heartfelt, and incredibly relatable. This book captures the chaos of being caught between aging parents, growing kids, and trying to keep your sense of humor intact. It spoke to anyone trying to hold it all together with love and grace.
The Other Boleyn Girl by Philippa Gregory
For this reader, it was more than entertainment. This historical fiction favorite sparked a love of research, curiosity, and a slight obsession with all things Tudor that continues today.
The Prince of Tides by Pat Conroy
A sweeping lyrical saga filled with family secrets, love, and redemption. This story inspired the reader to look beyond their own experience and see the complicated beauty in other people’s worlds.
Firefly Lane by Kristin Hannah
The ultimate ode to friendship. This one tugged at heartstrings and celebrated the messy, beautiful, decades-long bond between women who have seen each other through it all.
Outlive: The Science and Art of Longevity by Dr. Peter Attia
Practical, scientific, and surprisingly heartfelt. This book sparked new conversations about living longer and living better. It also inspired deeper connections with loved ones in ways that were unexpected but meaningful.
The Orphan Master’s Son by Adam Johnson
A powerful and haunting novel set in North Korea. For this reader, it was unforgettable and the kind of story you wish you could experience again for the very first time.
Books have a way of showing up right when we need them. They help us see ourselves, each other, and the world with fresh eyes. They remind us that growth, connection, and even a little transformation often starts with a story.
What book has changed you? We would love to hear your story.
